Post by Rick on Feb 2, 2016 11:35:48 GMT -5
Hi I happen to be in love with an adult with RAD. At times she can be loving and caring and even affectionate. Other times she is suspicious, jealous, uncaring and selfish to mention a few symptoms. She tells me I deserve better and she loves me very much. She openly admits having bonding issues and I think it hurts her feelings to share me with my kids. She somehow felt it was ok to leave me on new years eve on the spur of a moment then still say she loves me deeply? She recently says she would like to move because she has no friends here another symptom of adult RAD. She is impulsive and reads into situations and will grasp at the past to sink her way into thinking negative. She rarely sees a positive future and really would just like me to herself. I share custody of kids so she is jealous of the x who I don't get along with so great. It may just be all too much but it's hard to explain we had such a deep seated connection and for over two years the butterflys have never faded. Thanks for reading Rick